Siva renounces the world and leaves samsara in his meditation. Vishnu leaves his meditation and returns to the world over and over again, out of compassion for all sentient beings.
Vishnu returns to the world to teach the dharma, over and over again, in times when the dharma has been lost and the cycle of the Eternal Dharma is to begin again. He teaches the dharma of worldly life, the life embracing life. He comes back as Krishna, He comes back as Rama.
Rama was a householder who preferred asceticism but practiced householder life out of duty. Did you know that in the original version Sita fucked Ravana's brains out and Rama never touched her again? He went into the forest and practiced asceticism, waiting for a time when the dharma would be widespread. Maybe I just heard that somewhere.
At any rate, Bastante Solipsis Marquez wasn't about to do something foolish and believe in a woman's love, no matter how brightly lit the show. He sabotaged his own relationships in order to keep himself safe from Sita's lies. Nothing could get in.
Err. He could feel himself roasting. There had to be a way to let steam out-